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12.15.08 – Hot Water, Freelancing and My Dad


Talking a little bit about not having hot water for five days, freelancing at a new company and coming out to my dad. Exciting! Twists! Turns!

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14 Responses to “12.15.08 – Hot Water, Freelancing and My Dad”

  1. I’ve watched a few of your videos just now. You might not like the way you look in this one, but I think this is the best of all the faces of you that I’ve seen. Simply adorable!
    And congrats on finding openness from your father.

  2. Me in a cold shower wouldn’t be fun for anyone. Anyone with a hint of empathy would be as miserable as I am.

    Picture a cat in water. Now add ice.

    Shake and pour. Misery.

  3. your puppers sleeping in the background makes me smile. you should have vlogged taking a cold shower lol

  4. Wow that’s huge. I can’t get myself to tell anyone. Don’t complain about roto…. I’m mega jealous. :) Beats web design by a mile.

    HUGS!

  5. You could always take a dust bath like a chinchilla. Gratz on coming out to your dad.

  6. Yay! Greaseball! I hate you! Yay! Don’t sleep… ever! Yay!!!!
    ;)

  7. Yay awesome! Even if you are a greaseball, I still heart ya.

  8. MistressFabiola on February 9th, 2010 at 9:05 am

    I’m glad to hear about you and your realation with your dad.
    Take care, you look great, very sweet.
    xoxo

  9. Uh huh,
    Yeppers, I said it, RADIANT, as in beaming, beamy, effulgent, refulgent- as in “radiating like a star” or “radiant like the morning sunrise” or even “refulgent like a sunset” hehe ;)
    I know it’s hard when people hurl compliments your way, (trust me on this one) but I’ve always liked the shape of your face and the beauty of your skin…..
    Sooooo, get over it!!! lol
    Obtw- I did the opposite on my triangle. I let the people closest to me know first and made my way out:)
    Huggles,
    B.

  10. Thank you! Radiant. Wow. That’s a good one. ;)

    As for the parents being last… well here’s what I did. I knew I had to start transitioning and see how it made me feel. I started telling people farthest from me. I told my best friends last. If I was going to experience rejection, I wanted it to be able to live without the people I told. And telling my parents was easier for me knowing that everyone else, friends, co-workers, were cool.

    Maybe not for everyone, but for me, necessary.

  11. ZOMG,
    Zee is back!!!!
    Been like forever since you posted a video.
    Sorry to hear about the water thing, and to endure it for 5 days, eeek!!!
    Wow, to come out to your parents finally must be a huge relief off your shoulders. Hmmm, I’m just wondering why you did your parents last in the Triangle of Coming-Out (Family-Friends-Job).
    I don’t think I would’ve transitioned if my lil brother had of disproved of my decision; thank Gawd he didn’t lol.
    Anyways, as usual you are looking radiant:)

  12. NoNameTransWoman on February 9th, 2010 at 11:30 am

    I am glad that you were able to come out. When they see you…and here how content you are (at least I assume you are, you seem confident and happy anyway…) , that is really what matters.

  13. Ugh – ugh ugh – I can not, would not, will not shower in cold water! How did you survive : (

    I’m glad to hear about your dad – kudos to him and congratulations to you on being finished with that phase of things, and being out to everybody who hadn’t yet been caught up with you, you know? It seems like a relief.

  14. Congratulations, that’s cool that your dad took your coming out so well.

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